Disturbing your wife even in the state of slumbering or sleeping is also a bad deed. Do not disturb your wife even she is slumbering, a condemnable as well as dastardly despicable act in front of ALLAH. A very fascinating and well-documented, prominent hadith of Muhammad (Sallallahu alaihi wasallam), in which Hazrat Ayesha may ALLAH be pleased with her narrated that,” once I was sleeping on my bed and Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him was also sleeping on the same bed. And he (PBUH) wanted to get up for night prayer. So I was seeing that Prophet (PBUH) was moving so peace and tranquil, even softly that I was anxious what Prophet is doing. Prophet moved very softly until he went away from the bed. Then Prophet walked and opened the door so softly that there should not be made any noise. He went out and she said that I started thinking why Prophet did like that? And I got up and followed him. He went to Jannatul Baqi and there he made dua. So I came back on my bed before him. When Prophet came back, I asked him “oh Prophet of ALLAH (SWT) why you did like that. Prophet replied, “Ayesha, you were sleeping and I never wanted to disturb you. This is the action of Prophet. This is also the legacy of Islam. He never wanted to disturb the sleep of his wife. And we want to disturb the life of our wife on small things. Even we always do shouting, crying and abusing our wife and stop talking on them on very small and minor things. This is our behaviour and manner.
We feel that we are very good Muslims. We do not even comply with the definition of the Muslims. What I meant to say that it is shameful for us saying we are good Muslims. Because of the fact that we have been, at very small mistakes of women, never leaving a chance to humiliate, degrade, subjugate, discredit, and insult them. We have to upgrade and uplift her, need to cast a spell on her by our manner of behaviour and on moral high ground.
BY: MD IRSHAD AYUB (https://irshadayub5.blogspot.in/)
